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Do We Have Enough Toilet Paper Yet?

Toilet paper. Toilet paper. Toilet paper. It seemed for a while that the nation’s worry about the availability of TP ranked just below the concern for the ill, the death tolls, and the economy.


One of the unforeseen fallouts of the COVID19 pandemic has been the run (excuse the pun) on toilet paper. The scramble for the new “white gold” can be described as nothing less than extreme: In a Dollar General store in Iowa recently, a man was waiting for the cashier to ring up his purchase of toilet paper when another man behind him commented on the number of rolls he was buying. The first shopper felt “threatened” and pulled out a gun. (The police came before anyone was injured and the man without the gun was arrested!)


Toilet Paper Panic is Not Strictly an American Phenomenon


I’ve heard several stories like this one taking place across the country, but the toilet paper craze is not unique to the U.S. Several armed individuals in Hong Kong stole 600 rolls from a supermarket. One store in Sydney, Australia decided it needed to hire a security guard to watch over its toilet paper aisle.


(Aussies seem to have a good sense of humor about the whole phenomenon. One Australian newspaper included eight blank pages in an addition as a remedy for when its readers “run out of loo paper.” Aussies are also resourceful. One café started accepting toilet paper as currency—three rolls in exchange for a cup of joe.)


While I believe the numbers of fist fights over the remaining jumbo 48-roll packs in COSTCO have decreased in our country, the lack of TP accessibility—and the hoarding—is still “a thing.”


What is Going On?!?


The phenomenon has been the fodder for some good jokes and has given more than a few of us some lighter moments during the current tragedy. But toilet paper? Really? Of all the things to hoard, toilet paper seems a strange one. The dire need many people feel to procure those extra sheets of Charmin has been a puzzle I’ve had trouble wrapping my head around. What is this toilet paper craze all about?


There has been, surprisingly, quite a bit written about the phenomenon, and to alleviate my curiosity (and to kill some time) I researched the topic—for hours! Here’s what I got!


According to the LA Times , most Americans use an average of less than half a roll each week—give or take. Even if we use a slightly higher number, “it would take a household of 15 to rip through just one Costco-sized 30-pack of Kirkland Signature two-ply over the course of a 14-day quarantine. For a couple, one pack should last for nearly four months.”


Four months!


The Practical and the Psychological—Two Explanations


Under normal circumstances, there is no problem keeping up with the demand for toilet paper. But there is nothing normal about life under coronavirus and the current toilet paper demand. Fully stocked shelves become empty as soon as supermarkets open their doors. People must be running out of storage space for TP in their homes by now.


Yet, demand continues, and this continuing demand reflects several factors—some practical, involving economics and supply and demand principles. The other factors are more psychological in nature, involving the opposite end of our bodies—our brains.


Let’s Hit the Practical First


The shortage of available toilet paper is partially due to TP’s normal demand cycle, which is pretty reliable with few fluctuations.


Scott Luton, the CEO and founder of Supply Chain Now explains in USA Today: “The supply chain for toilet paper is not built for dramatic shifts and seasonal demand changes. It’s not like pumpkins during the fall and chicken wings during the Super Bowl.”



Corporations that produce toilet paper, therefore, are not prepared for such sudden upticks in demand. They don’t have the infrastructure. (The big producers are now pumping out rolls 24/7, so help is on the way!


During natural disasters, or even when The Weather Channel predicts a storm, consumers living in those specific geographical areas do exhibit “stocking-up” behaviors. But our current crisis is a global one. Excess supply from one region cannot be diverted to another. There is no excess supply—anywhere!


The Lack of Availability is Not Solely Due to Hoarding


Because of COVID19, most of us are spending a great more time at home—which means we’re also using our home bathrooms much more than when we went to the office, to school, or frequented restaurants.

People actually do need to purchase more toilet paper than under pre-COVID conditions. According to USA Today, we’re experiencing an “estimated 40% increase over the average daily home usage.”

Unfortunately, we can’t easily move the lonely unused rolls of toilet paper sitting in public bathrooms, over to private spaces. “Office” toilet paper is a very different product!

How different can it be, you ask? Again, USA Today has the answer: “One kind of bath tissue—for the commercial market—often is made of one ply of recycled fiber and generally is found on rollers at businesses and public places. The other kind—retail toilet paper—is often made of two-ply virgin fiber and is generally much softer for use at home.”


Has anyone else noticed that TP is softer at home?


Hoarding 101


Ok. So we now have a better understanding of the economics and logistics of the craze. Let’s look next at the psychology behind it all. We’ll start with the easy stuff, general reasons for hoarding.


Much of the TP panic can be summed up in one word: control.


Deborah Small, a psychologist at Wharton, explains in the Philadelphia Inquirer: “We all have this fundamental motive to maintain control over our environments … when we go about our daily lives, most of the time we feel pretty in control, right? We have freewill. Most people can purchase things that they need when they want to … when something extraordinary happens like this, then we feel out of control, and purchasing and having lots of stuff around us is one way that we can feel in control.”


The need to control (and to express that need in such bizarre-o ways) is felt most intensely during uncertain times and when we are presented with unclear or mixed messages. In other words, times when there is little we can do to control and what the little we can do is unclear. In still other words, when we have very little objective control. I would say our current COVID environment fits those criteria. Add to that the fact that we don’t know when this damn thing is going to end, and we have the perfect recipe for hoarding.


Hoarding Provides People with a Sense of Control


According to Dr Bella DePaulo , “people are worried, and they want to do something … and stocking up on toilet paper is one option. Research on decision-making has documented a ‘zero risk bias.’ People like the idea of eliminating one category of risk entirely, even if it is something as superficial as running out of toilet paper. People can get complete control over that one little thing in their lives.”


FOMO, or the Fear of Missing Out is one of the “11 Psychological Reasons Why We Hoard Toilet Paper in a Crisis” presented in an article in Inverse. FOMO is sparked in large part by news clips and social media. Sylvain Senecal, professor of marketing at HEC Montreal University, explains: “if media reports that people are stocking up on toilet paper, (others) will be motivated to do the same even if they cannot objectively explain why they do so.  It’s the “scarcity effect.”

Let’s face it—scarcity consciousness is an unfortunate but powerful motivator .


We can behave like herd animals, especially when we’re scared. According to Dr. Small, “There’s general panic, and then there’s panic over other people’s panic.” It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.


But WHY Toilet Paper?


Some psychologists, like Small, don’t think there is anything inherent in toilet that makes it a particularly unique target of hoarding. Ronald Mackerville, Professor of Recreation and leisure studies at University of Waterloo agrees and believes “If social media had focused instead on images of lines at gas stations, or empty shelves of canned goods, we might have seen very different behavior.”


But the fact remains that social media didn’t focus on other images; it focused on TP! Why?


DePaulo finds that toilet paper “has some particularly attractive qualities as an object of hoarding.” Here are several of the qualities DePaulo offers on her list:

  1. “Toilet paper isn’t perishable. It will be there for you when you need it, and no matter how long that takes, you will eventually need it.
  2. You aren’t really wasting your money. It is relatively inexpensive, too.
  3. And because it is a product that takes up so much space, you probably don’t have a lot of it stocked up already.
  4. In a pinch, toilet paper can be used as a substitute for tissues.”


Dr. Baruch Fischhoff, professor in the Department of Engineering and Public Policy at Carnegie Mellon University, highlights another very logical reason in Time . “If people did not find the food they wanted, they could buy other food. For toilet paper, there are no substitutes.”


How true? Unless you are seriously fond of showers or have a bidet, without TP, you are up a creek.


(Two additional comments to add here. Bidet sales have, in fact, surged recently, according to the Washington Post . On a more personal level, I have just started watching the Netflix series Schitt’s Creek. Could it be related???)


Let’s Get Down and Dirty


Ok. Here’s where we get down and dirty—literally. There’s a more “primitive,” unconscious reason that so many of us have sought out toilet paper.


Freud anyone?


Leave it to the New Yorker to publish an article called “What would Freud Make of the Toilet-Paper Panic.” In his piece Henry Alford asks Andrea Greenman, president of the Contemporary Freudian Society her take on the toilet paper panic: “‘Controlling cleanliness around B.M.s is the earliest way the child asserts control. The fact that now we are all presumably losing control creates a regressive push to a very early time. So, I guess that translates to the unconscious to ‘If I have a lifelong supply of toilet paper, I’ll never be out of control, never be a helpless, dirty child again.’”


Oh boy!


Jeffrey Kluger in his article for Time  also goes way back to explain our connection to the paper product: “Toilet paper has primal—even infantile—associations, connected with what is arguably the body’s least agreeable function in a way we’ve been taught from toddlerhood.” When he asked Mary Alvord, associate professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at GW, to share her thoughts, she said, “We’ve gone beyond using leaves, its’ about being clean and presentable and social and not smelling bad.”


When you put it that way …


Dr. DePaulo makes this special connection between toilet paper and COVID: “Messaging around the coronavirus is all about hygiene and cleanliness: wash your hands don’t touch your face, don’t’ get too close to other people and their germs. Toilet paper is about hygiene and cleanliness, too, in ways people are a bit more reluctant to discuss. No need to talk about it,” she adds, “just fill your shopping cart …”


A Different Take on Control


So … now you know more about the connection between toilet paper and COVID than you ever dreamed possible. I hope this post has not only enlightened you with critical information but has lightened any heaviness you may be carrying about the surreal state of being we are all trying to manage.



By all means, buy toilet paper when you can find it, but remember, hoarding is based in fear. And fear can make us close up, become smaller, and think little of those outside our own inner circle.


The toilet paper crisis, like much else in our society, hurts the neediest the most. Hoarding and resulting product unavailability can lead to higher pricing, which makes even buying a small number of rolls more challenging for those who have little to spare.


Choosing not to hoard TP can actually be one small way to access feelings of greater control in an uncertain time—by overcoming the fear of scarcity and leaving a few rolls our neighbors.


As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave a comment or send me an email!


Be safe. Be healthy. Be brave.


See you in two weeks!




  1. Sarita K Sid on April 29, 2020 at 7:57 pm

    Thank you, Diane, for bringing insight & levity during this shit show we’re living in.
    I enjoyed the comments section too 🙂
    My husband is very fussy about his toilet paper ordinarily, but he understands we all have to make sacrifices at this time 😉
    I have a question: What does the acronym B.M.s (in section regarding Freud’s take) stand for? I have a vague idea, of course.
    In my search for alternative sources of TP I found an Australian company called Who Gives a Crap: us.whogivesacrap.org These folks are socially & environmentally responsible & they also make me laugh, with regularity- another essential at all times, but especially now.
    Wishing everyone good health

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 30, 2020 at 3:40 am

      Hi Sarita! I love the name Who Gives a Crap for a toiled paper company! I looked at their website, and unfortunately, they say they’re “all wiped out!” Even they’re out of stock!
      BM stands for bowel movement. It’s an American thing!Did you have any such euphemisms growing up in England?

      • Sarita K Sid on May 1, 2020 at 12:08 am

        Ha ha “all wiped out” sounds like a statement this toilet paper company would make! Okay, bowel movement- I do know that phrase. I might have heard “going to the little girls’ room,” or “going for a tinkle”- as though we were going somewhere to ring bells & pick daisies 😉

        • Diane Gottlieb on May 1, 2020 at 2:11 pm

          LOVE “going somewhere to ring bells & pick daisies!” Oh, what our word choices say about our cultures!

  2. Mia Anderson on April 21, 2020 at 2:43 pm

    I would just add the chakra connection: the Root chakra (which includes the anus) is all about feeling SAFE, and these days, most people don’t feel safe. … On the matter of the pandemic bringing out the worst in some people, I’m terribly saddened to read about the rise in domestic abuse, especially abuse of women and children, but also of pets. Talk about the behavioral consequences of fear! I try to remember what A Course in Miracles says: that everything we think, say, and do is either an expression of love or a call for love out of our place of woundedness. Sometimes that’s not easy, but I try to hold compassion and love. Peace

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 21, 2020 at 3:32 pm

      Thank you, Mia, for that important addition to the discussion! How could I have overlooked the chakras?!? Fear an be a terrible beast that often brings out our worst, but these times also call upon us, as you said, to “try to hold compassion and love.” You seem to be rising to the occasion. I’m doing my best to hold compassion and love as well.

  3. marjorie waterman on April 21, 2020 at 8:29 am

    Thank you, Diane, for solving one of life’s great mysteries! My grocery store still has no paper products One whole aisle of empty shelves. Wierd! Obviously a large proportion of our society is anal!

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 21, 2020 at 8:59 am

      Thank you, Marjorie, for making me laugh! I guess “a large proportion of our society is anal.” Hope you’re finding all the other items you need–like food!

  4. Nicky Mendenhall on April 20, 2020 at 11:41 pm

    Diane – quoting an article about Freud! – YOU knew I’d love that didn’t you? To show you how into Freudian thinking I am, I actually thought that the focus on TP had something to do with our earliest development! I had not seen the article but it was very affirming to hear about it.

    Before COVID-19, my husband knew that a way to make me happy was to bring home a pack of our favorite brand of TP in the extra soft variety so you can imagine that I was freaking out when it appeared we couldn’t find it. We are actually using another brand! And I don’t mind it one bit – I’m just so glad to have it. There used to be such a good feeling of everything is going to be okay when my cupboard was full. I remember that with fondness. Now we are rationing four packs. Oh you got me going on this topic! I bet you had fun researching for this article. Thank you!

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 21, 2020 at 2:24 am

      Of course, I thought of you, Nicky, and smiled! I was going to give you a head’s up but thought I’d surprise you. Your husband is a fine man!

  5. LaurA on April 20, 2020 at 5:08 pm

    Thank for looking into this for all of us Diane!! Very helpful!!

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 20, 2020 at 5:24 pm

      Thank you, Laura! Glad it helped!

  6. Greta Holt on April 20, 2020 at 3:53 pm

    So, some TP is back on our shelves. I’ve bought a 48-mega, while I await piles of it from Amazon that I panic-ordered way back at the beginning of the crisis. Suddenly, in late May, I’ll have boxes of it on my porch. Herd mentality, desperate need to control, and anger at the hoarders. Boy will my face be red when those TP packages arrive.

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 20, 2020 at 4:09 pm

      Ha! Don’t be too hard on yourself, Greta! By late May, you may need them!!

  7. Deborah Roth on April 20, 2020 at 1:56 pm

    This is fabulous, Diane –I’m spreading it far and wide! <3

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 20, 2020 at 2:02 pm

      Thanks, Deborah! Much appreciated!!

      • Clare R on April 21, 2020 at 2:01 am

        I read something about a toilet paper shortage in 1973. I had an a-ha moment. THAT’S why we always had some much toilet paper growing up. The tradition continues in my house, 40
        rolls waiting to be used. I am wondering if it’s enough. 😉

        • Diane Gottlieb on April 21, 2020 at 2:25 am

          Ha!Let me know, Clare, how long it lasts!

  8. Dorothy on April 20, 2020 at 1:50 pm

    Fears will not take away our troubling times.. Only our Peaceful time! The hoarding of TP is irrational and counterproductive it speaks to the worst in us. People have lost their shit lol pun intended. I personally blame a lot on our 24/7 panic media, fear sells. How unfortunate we can’t rely on a fair or balanced media to support unity and civility, instead of doomsday scenario. I’m being careful and kind and hopeful for our us the world & mankind. We will prevail with a little help from our friends!

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 20, 2020 at 2:01 pm

      Thanks, Dorothy! Loved the pun! And yes, kind and hopeful is what we need more of, especially in times like these!

  9. Denise Polis on April 20, 2020 at 1:05 pm

    That was great Diane! I was wondering why people were so freaked out over toilet paper!
    That was so interesting. Thanks for doing the research!
    My son spent 3 months in the wilderness with no toilet paper–he used leaves. I thought if necessary, that’s what I’d wind up doing. If he could do it and survive, I would do it.

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 20, 2020 at 1:32 pm

      Thanks, Denise! Leaves!! Good to know–hope it doesn’t get to that, but it really could be worse!

  10. Isabel cotarelo on April 20, 2020 at 12:15 pm

    Thank you Diane for bringing a laugh into my Monday morning. Stay well!!!

    • Diane Gottlieb on April 20, 2020 at 12:50 pm

      Always good to laugh on Monday mornings, Isabel!

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